Hi there! Let me introduce you to the Dale family.
The Papa in our family works very hard all day at a school software company so I can stay home and play with the kids.
James, who just turned 3, is obsessed with the color orange, loves our neighbor’s cat “Twinkles” (probably because he’s orange) (also, the cat’s real name is D.J.) and would watch Puffin Rock on Netflix every day if Mama would let him. She does not.
The youngest in our family, Andrew, is 16 months old, adores his brother and is in the stage where putting things inside things is the BEST. THING. EVER. To him, not necessarily to me when I’m looking for my comb and find it 2 days later in a kitchen pot.
My name is Danielle, and I love singing, all the coffee, a clean house and corny jokes. I’m also embarking upon a new journey… preschool homeschooling!
Our Morning:
I could write about one of our days last week at Family Camp, which would be full of fun pool adventures, Santa Cruz boardwalk rides, pancake breakfasts and playtime, but I thought a typical day might be best for someone who wants a peek into a regular day with two kids under 3.
Today started like most, with my 16-month-old waking up first around 7:15. Actually, he usually wakes up at 6:30 so this was a sleep-in! James, my 3-year-old, followed shortly thereafter because they share a room. I give Andrew some milk and let him wake up slowly and James and I usually talk about the day. Today, I got them both dressed before heading downstairs. Often we stay in our p.j.’s until after breakfast.
We had scrambled eggs for breakfast, along with a banana, some toast with jam and a few slices of Canadian bacon. This sounds delightful (and it was) but it was mixed in with potty training with James (usually needs help wiping), changing a diaper for Andrew, giving James medicine, picking up toys here and there, making coffee, giving James juice, helping James set the table (he puts out the plates and bibs and napkins) and so on.
Seeing as today is Monday, our gardener came by to mow the lawn and tend to the plants/shrubs. It’s always a highlight for our week, that and Tuesday, which is garbage day. 🙂
By the time breakfast is over and dishes are rinsed (not put into the dishwasher because I’ve gotten interrupted a few times) Andrew is ready for a 9:30 nap. He goes down really easily–a kiss from brother, me, and then a quick song.
Then James and I start “school” time. I paid a few bills while James played with Morph. Yesterday we did a lot of book work, so today is more hands on. I encouraged him today to try new things with Morph, kind of like unstructured play time. Often, I give specifics like, “Let’s make a nest and some bird eggs…see, roll it like this to make an egg.” He then moved on to Dominos, again, with a more unstructured playtime. He built a house, and I was really proud of him because it was 2 stories!
We then went outside and he played with bubbles and then we watered the plants and looked for snails.
Our Afternoon:
Lunch was a “snack tray.” I like doing this when I’m low on groceries or when it’s hot outside (I don’t like preparing food when it’s 90 outside). It was turkey breast, string cheese, apple slices, strawberry yogurt and something else I can’t remember. 🙂 (It’s a good thing I didn’t try to write about a different day, I wouldn’t remember anything!)
After lunch it’s “rest time” for James. He only actually sleeps a few times a month, but we almost always put him down for rest time. He has to stay in his bed, sometimes he gets a toy or two or a book, it just depends on if he’s really tired and looks like he might actually sleep. Andrew also takes a nap, but in a Pack ‘n Play in another room so they don’t wake/keep each other up.
During their naps is when I try to do computer stuff, like pay bills or catch up on texts or something. I try not to be on my phone or computer too much with the kids around because it’s distracting and I find myself getting frustrated if I keep getting interrupted, which I always do because screens are like magnets to little ones. Plus, it’s a good example, I think, to limit it, but of course work does need to get done.
When I’m exhausted, I’ll eat my lunch and watch a short movie. Today, I played a game on my phone and ate lunch and I think I started a load of laundry and did some tidying.
Our Evening:
After the boys got up (neither slept, but both looked rested) we did a lot of reading.
We read:
Number Work (preschool work)
Dear Zoo
Map Work (preschool work)
White on Black
Goodnight, Hawaiian Moon
Papa, Please Get the Moon for Me
Silly Goose
Castles (a flip up the flap book)
Trains Go
Dinner was chicken nuggets for the boys, along with some applesauce. My hubby and I had some work to catch up on so we had mac’n’cheese and tuna.
Our boys’ bedtime is 6:30 but we were running a little late, so they were in bed by 7:00.
Matt and I swept through the house to pick up toys and tidy. Matt did dishes while I called my youngest brother to say hi, and then called my Dad.
I went outside to pick some flowers for vases in the house and got the mail (and almost tripped over Twinkles who likes our front porch). I’m currently writing this up while Matt finishes up a video presentation for work tomorrow.
Just for Fun:
We did music lessons last year and I’m considering it again, but it’s expensive and my 3-year-old tends to pick up sickness any time he’s around kids. We’re currently getting over colds.
I’m also considering swim lessons.
Even though we have no extracurriculars, we do make plans throughout the week. We have a park date once a week or so (sometimes by ourselves, but often with another mom and her kids), we plan activities like going to a splash pad, going to the airport to watch planes, visiting Gigi (Great Grandma) and taking adventure walks around our house.