I am Jessye of Snohomish, Washington. As a (mostly) stay at home mama, (I work for a zip line tour company 2-4 days a month) most of my day is spent exploring with and engaging our son – and I wouldn’t have it any other way! We thank God everyday for a husband and father who works hard everyday to provide for us and allow me to stay home. We spend nearly as much time outdoors as we do inside.
Thane is nearly 3, and we are expecting a little girl in October. Thane is a busy little man who loves nature, hiking, biking, our chickens, music, tumbling, and reading – he spends 2-4 hours a day reading with either my husband or I.
Our Morning:
Today was a fairly typical Tuesday. Daddy left for work at 05:30 – if he goes to the fitness studio he leaves even earlier. Thane woke up earlier than usual too, but I don’t mind since he typically spends the first 30 – 45 minutes of his day snuggled next to me in bed reading books. He really loves reading Richard Scarry and Bill Peet books in the morning.
Our daughter, who will be born in October, has a condition called Thanatophoric Dysplasia. It is a form of dwarfism that not only affects the development of her arms and legs, but her chest as well. She is not expected to live more that a few hours at most. We have been aware of this for nearly 4 weeks now, and though at times we are overwhelmed by grief, we also thank God every day for the blessing of calling this precious baby girl our daughter. We take every opportunity we can to cherish our little Mercy Tirzah-Athalia.
As we lay in bed in the morning, Thane will pat my belly and say, “Hi baby Mercy, I’m your big brother.” He likes to “read” her simple Sandra Boynton books and sing the doxology to her as we snuggle. I have to admit, because he woke up early today and I am not sleeping as well due to the pregnancy, he did get to watch 20 minutes of programming on our Kindle in bed with me so I could “rest my eyes” just a little longer. We limit his screen time to an hour or less a week.
After we got up, dressed, and checked on the chickens, it was time to eat breakfast – which usually includes either scrambled eggs with spinach and cheese, or soft boiled eggs with funny faces drawn on the shells. Today we had scrambled “spinach-eggies” and pancakes with strawberries.
Once Thane helped me put the dishes in the dishwasher and sink, we brushed our teeth and it was time to start school. We start with prayer, a Bible lesson, and by working on a memory verse. Our verse this week is Lamentation 3:25, “The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul that seeks him.”
After this, I give Thane a massage as we sing some fun favorite songs. Then we do a variety to activities designed for vestibular stimulation, and to challenge balance, co-ordination, and motor skills. A number of these activities are taken from Sasse’s book, Active Baby, Healthy Brain.
Then we move onto puzzle books and thinking skills games/activities, Farmland Math, further reading and letter work. (We use a customized Toddler Kit from Timberdoodle.) We round off our 1 1/2-2 hours of school with some songs and finger plays and some STEM activities – today that was play dough and Plus Plus Midis, but it can be different almost every day.
After school today, Thane went outside and played at his sand table while Mama did some chores. Then we got out our Slackline and spent some time walking and bouncing on that before checking on our mealworm farm (we raise mealworms for our chickens) and building a reading tent in the backyard. We read some books, watered the vegetable garden, picked some strawberries and ate lunch.
Our Afternoon:
After a foam sword fight, it was time to wind down with a couple more books and then Thane took a nap while I prepped dinner and spent some time singing to little Mercy.
When Thane wakes up from his nap, he is very snuggly, so today, like most days, I lay down with him and read a few more books. While he is sleeping I try to plan some activity that encourages Thane to engage with nature. (I often reference Asia Citro’s book, A Little Bit of Dirt. We also like her blog funathomewithkids.com – our favorite post being the recipe for edible chia seed gak.) Today, however, this didn’t happen, so when he was ready to play, we went outside and decorated the driveway with sidewalk chalk.
After another foam sword fight, Thane discovered that if he took all the toys out of his soft-sided toy bin, he could fit in it or wear it as a turtle shell! Daddy came home and Thane asked him to read some fairy tales in the reading tent.
I took off for the fitness studio shortly after that leaving the two of them playing with squirt guns in the backyard.
Our Evening:
I came back from the gym to find Thane and Daddy reading on the sofa. They had worn each other out playing chase and sword fighting in the backyard.
Dinner this evening was spinach salad with homemade pickled beets, hard-boiled egg, cheese, cucumber and tomato. We had garlic bread as well.
After the table was cleared we had Family Worship. Daddy prayed, we sang a hymn, read from a children’s Bible, and sang another hymn. Thane doesn’t know all the words to the hymns, but he sings what he knows. He likes to play his little drum these days, too, because we have learned that even unborn babies enjoy music, and particularly like music with a steady beat as it bears similarity to a heart beat. Our closing prayer was said by Thane tonight.
Then we had some berries with chocolate sauce.
After we tidy up for the night, it was time to get ready for bed, read some more books, turn out the lights and listen to Daddy tell us a fantastic adventure story about Max (based on Maurice Sendak’s character from Where the Wild Things Are.)
Just for Fun:
Thane enjoys a weekly class at The Little Gym. This happens on Friday mornings and we usually do not do school this day. We also go hiking or on some other (typically outdoor) adventure with Daddy at least every other Saturday.